Spring 2009 Cruising Reflections
May 26, 2009 - Brunswick, Georgia
While working around the almost-continuous rain storms this past week trying to get Jubilee prepped for hurricane season storage here in the Brunswick Landings Marina, we've had a little time to reflect on our last two and a half months of Florida and Bahamas travels and our last 12 months of cruising.
Our time in the Bahamas was shortened quite a bit by our late start from Brunswick and, of course, by our bow roller and refrigeration problems in Ft. Pierce and Lake Worth. However, even considering those delays we still were able to spend about 6 wonderful weeks in the islands... our first trip there on our own bottom.
Between our March 6th Brunswick departure and our May 16th Brunswick return we logged a total of 1367.9 nautical miles, or about 1573 statute miles wending our way from Brunswick down the Florida coast to Lake Worth, over to the Bahamas at West End, down to explore the Exumas, back up through Nassau to Royal Island, Eluthera, and the Abacos, and then back to Florida and Georgia (see our Spring 2009 overview chart snap at right).
We simply loved the rugged beauty of the Exumas with their picturesque cays and wonderful snorkeling holes. We were also surprised by the very different yet enticing Abacos. Each of these two Bahamas cruising areas has their own appeal. Where the Exumas felt wild and remote (albeit with scores of cruising boats also exploring from cay to cay), the Abacos felt more like the British Virgins, providing a beautiful tropical cruising setting but with shore-side amenities like restaurants and watering holes, marinas, mooring fields and the like all closely spaced (see Bahamas detail chart snap at left).
However in only six weeks one can but touch the surface of a cruising area as large and varied as the Bahamas. Others had told us we could spend years cruising there and never see it all. They're no doubt right. While our cruising plans for next season remain open at this point, we expect we'll likely forego moving on to the eastern Caribbean for a while to allow more time to explore the Bahamas.
When looking back at our cruising logs since departing Bayfield, WI, in June of 2007, we see that we've now traveled a total of 5306 nautical miles, or about 6102 statute miles. No matter how it's measured that's a big number. However more important than the numbers, having now completed our first stint in the Bahamas we have, in may ways, finally begun to realize part of that dream that started us thinking about this trip so many years ago.
Bob Bitchin, publisher of the cruising rag Latitudes and Attitudes, regularly tells his readers "Don't Dream your Life ... Live Your Dream". During this past 12 months we've truly started living our cruising dream, and in starting to live that dream we've each begun to learn more about ourselves and our respective yet intimately intertwined life journeys.
During the past two and a half month's of cruising both of us thoroughly enjoyed reading the book "Fawn Island" (University of Minnesota Press) by Douglas Wood. In one of the book's closing chapters Minnesota singer/songwriter/teacher/north country wilderness guide and author Doug Wood writes about his north woods dreams, however his words apply to dreams of every nature:
"But something was also lost when the dream came true - the dream itself. For the only way to keep a dream intact, in all its inviolate perfection, is to never live it out, never realize it. The day a dream becomes real it becomes subject to all the imperfections of reality. The realization of any dream, particularly those things that bring deepest joy - love, marriage, the birth of a child, reaching a life-long goal - also brings care and worry, the risk of loss, the awareness of impermanence. The surest way to end a dream, in fact, is to reach it; the only way to keep, to never live it out."
Truer words have seldom been spoken. On reaching the Bahamas we, too, have begun realizing our dreams of so many years, and with the achievement of those dreams has come new understandings of the nature of those same dreams. After spending nine of the past twelve months on board, Judy is ready and anxious for several months at home and off the boat. Bill's more conflicted ... less certain about returning, even temporarily, to the life of a dirt dweller. Both of us have come to realize how much more acutely our cruising lives are driven by the weather, particularly in the Bahamas which seem to be so directly affected by wave after wave of winter and early spring weather rolling off the United States and colliding with the northern reaches of the trade winds. Judy was finding the constant newness of surroundings and its corresponding uncertainty to be emotionally wearing at times, while that same uncertainty helped keep Bill's adrenalin flowing. And both of us, in varying degrees and in our own ways, have missed friends and family back home, while at the same time thoroughly enjoying the many cruising friendships struck up along the way. We're both hoping to retain many of those special new friendships long beyond our cruising years.
As a partner-crew these past 5000+ miles we feel we've done extremely well, and feel our marriage has become even stronger as a result. By the same token we're becoming more aware of each other's wants and needs as we begin thinking about what lies next.
Wood goes on to ask:
"So how does a person who believes in the pursuit of dreams - in the possibility of attaining them - deal with this paradox? [i.e. the perfection of the dream vs. the imperfection of reality]"
Wood responds to his own question:
"By consciously abandoning the quest for perfection in any material sense. ... Up brings down, before creates after, gain is balanced by loss, joy accompanied by sorrow. A dream need not be subject to these limitations. A reality must be." Wood continues "... one of the things most good about the realization of a dream - any dream - is that it lends courage and conviction to the future, to the dreaming of new dreams. Some will be realized, some will not; none will be perfect, but all will be worth the dreaming. ... Part of the balance ... lies in anticipating and welcoming the beckoning future, the place where all dreams live, along with the opportunity to make them real and share them."
With those thoughts we temporarily close the book (or blog) on our cruising exploits thus far while we take some time to anticipate and welcome that beckoning future, wherever it might lead. Aside from our own plans for time at home and other non-boating travels, our insurance company wants Jubilee to remain no further south than Brunswick until at least November 1st, the statistical end of hurricane season. And so, too, this cruising Blog will remain largely inactive until at least that time. To be alerted as soon as we start posting again, please consider registering for the Blog's RSS feed which will provide you with direct email versions of blog contents whenever a posting is made.
In the interim we hope to be seeing many of you during our time back in the Twin Cities and our land travels this coming summer. Have a wonderful summer and fall, all!